I (30M) am considering ending my relationship with my partner (26F) due to her $250,000 in debt..

Yeah, money is the last thing I think about. Also the last question that comes to mind when I'm interested in someone is, what job they have.

Common interest, attraction, communication all way more important to me than how much money they make. Then again I don't keep rally on how much more I paid for/cooked dinner for them. I tend to not keep tabs on how many more times I did chores or all the other petty/trivial things most people in relationships fight, stress and break up over. I've observed and gone through it enough to learned that is the fasted way to destroy a relationship. Or worse prevent myself from entering one.

I'm not keeping score and don't believe you should keep score in a relationship.

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