You in love with this chick cause she fine, and you get pissed cause she cause she shrugs you off cause shes not attracted to you, but you think your mind or being a nice guy ought to get you some from her anyway.
Imagine all the intelligent, high character women out there, that are uglier than you, or fatter. Would you date any of them? Nah.. You might get drunk as shit and bang..but...
Have a little empathy. In this hypothetical situation, the dudes the fat girl. Friend? Sure. Date? You're just not into it.
Yet how you feel when they get drunk and are pawing at you or confess feelings and you just.. Feel nothing. Or disgust if they're being aggressive. Or if that hasn't happened imagine it.
Attractiveness matters, generally. Gotta be something there.
One of my best friends an ex model, just gorgeous and outgoing, not haughty at all, laid back and all. Every dude that came through her way, always did that. Got drunk and made a move or confessed feelings. And all she wanted were friends. I remember one time we were drunk and having that late night deep talk, and she started crying because I was the only guy who had been her close friend for years and years. Cause all those dudes that do that and get rejected? They disappear. And then boom... Loneliness. Sadness, anger.. why couldnt she have just a solid group of friends where this doesn't happen over and over, the guy cant handle being just a friend and ghosts and there goes that group of friends she met with the dude. Sad.. Although obviously this is a special case, being on the side of my best friend and seeing through her eyes.
But most guys don't do that. How well do they even get to know a chick before they do something dumb with no sign from her of interest? People think all women are like the perfectly pure chick from a movie that goes for the wimp cause he's smart or funny or gets her... Every time. Then get butthurt when it doesn't happen. As though they are the special unique guy that either should get her cause he wishes and fixates from afar. Or does talk to her can't see she doesn't seem him like that.
Empathy.. World would be a better place if everyone had a little more. People need to put themselves in the minds of those people and see what they see. Not judge them by their actions and you by your own thoughts and intentions.
Damn, how long have I been typin