I have sex two times a month sometimes or once if I choose. Making a man wait isn’t bad. Sometimes people also get busy with life plus when you give it too easy that is also seen as bad.
I’ve had enough bad sex with men to know there’s no reason to rush to sex on a first or whatever date. When I find a rare one who’s actually good in bed, I keep him. There’s no need for negativity on women not giving men quick sex. If you don’t enjoy it, that’s part of life.
And to those saying there’s no such thing as hard to get penis please know that’s a lie. So I’m in need more than a pretty face to be aroused or enticed. They need a mental connection or a woman with class and other things before they engage. Men who use words like “Mid” likely don’t understand that.