Disclaimer: everybody is different and you need to learn what works for you, there's no easy answer I only provide this advice as a way for you to research other's and build your own identity with a little more perspective and experience... do NOT think you need to fit a category, especially with things you aren't comfortable.

dd/lg? Think about a "middle"? If littles have a pre-teen headspace, a middle is more like feeling like you're somewhere between a little and and adult.

Less colouring, more like when you're 16 and you have posters, getting spoilt, wearing fun makeup... almost an adult, but before the responsibilities of bills and such kill your fun.

You have an authority figure that is protective (Daddy) and puts your care first, to me this is more about just being respected and in charge, and in exchange I care about her wellbeing and look after her as if she was basically 16.

... and yes... I feel like I have a 16 year old and it's almost too much like I'm an actual Daddy.

She's not a brat, but she's spoilt a lot and the power dynamic doesn't come with tantrums as much as she can act like a teen that thinks she knows best.

This won't be you, but it's something to think about and take away a little if it seems like you can relate.

feel free to ask questions if you want to hear more about my own dynamic.

Also, the bondage thing... most have a limit to how much bondage they can take, yours is where it is and that's not a problem.

same with degradation, different amounts in different styles... just because you don't like being a slave doesn't mean you can't find what about humiliation you enjoy.

I only really put this because it took me a while to find out that there's a point between littles and grown-ups that fit us.