Dude you’re not fucking getting it!!! Months ago he held his wife and baby hostage in his home threatening them with a gun. He got arrested and was released within hours. His wife got a restraining order and order of protection against her and the baby. He got his guns taken away after that incident. Yesterday he broke into his wife parents house while his wife and baby were home and she called the cops on him for violating the restraining order. He broke the fucking law and they were going to his house to arrest him not to remove his guns. And his wife and family have tried to get him help. He refuses the help. They’re going through the courts now to mandate him to therapy. They’re obviously trying to help him but he’s not trying to help himself. He’s a grown ass man and no one can make him do anything. I’m not making this about me? I’m telling you he’s been given the chance for help and would rather drink and do coke than go to therapy. When I was texting my cousin last night while all this was happening I said I hope to god he doesn’t kill himself I keep saying he needs help. Doesn’t make him any less of an asshole though for terrorizing his own wife and baby regardless of his mental issues. His wife is literally terrified he’s going to get out of jail and come kill her. This has been going on for a while now and once again I’m telling you they’ve tried to get him help. You can’t force someone to do anything.