YTA. “I’ve had my fun chasing non Asians of whom I actually find attractive now I want to find a nice Asian provider so my parents will be happy and I can have a nice lifestyle” you say he doesn’t have the right to pry into your past relationships but YOU seem to think you’re entitled to him as a provider. He has every right to know how you’ve behaved in the last 10 or so years so he can make an informed judgement as to whether or not you’re wife and mother material. If someone told me the things you told him I’d assume they were going to divorce me later in life when they realise they don’t have to keep me around to keep benefitting financially. (I understand cultural differences could come into play here).