AITA for refusing to wash off my makeup?

Yeah but not everyone uses a shit ton of makeup.. like I said I have had friends that spend about an hour every day before they freaking leave their house at 6am to commute to school to put on makeup because it's become that important to them. But luckily I've dated exs who literally all just put on eye liner and lipstick and are Gucci for any day that isn't like a major dance or something.

So it's entirely possible that he didn't know... Either way I think it's okay for him to not like makeup and it's entirely her right to put on makeup. Even with me this wouldn't have stopped me from getting laid, especially if I was a little drunk lol but when I'm sober I literally am physically unable to get an erection when there's that much makeup involved. Like it's stupid cause I don't know anyone else who like that and the first time it happened was when I was still a virgin freshman lmao. But it is what it is, your right tho he should've let her know in advance but the dudes almost 40.. who wants to get up at 7am.

Clearly hooking up isn't THAT important for him. Which is super unique. He just seems more of a real nice guy and not niceguyTM, maybe he actually is married and stupid enough to believe that if she sleeps over without makeup his wife won't find out? Even though that's bs imo, there's always a scent that remains or an imprint on the bed. He could also just wash the sheets and tell his wife he spilled something.

But I still stand by NAH, she definitely isn't the asshole, but it's his right to not have her stay over as long as he doesn't threaten her and makes sure she gets back safely, like the dude even drove her car back, he didn't just call her an Uber.

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