First off, I would appreciate no name calling.

Second, in case you didn’t read my other replies, the cat LOVES being in my mom’s room. She spends most of her time there as she’s very antisocial and only likes my mom. The only time she ventures out of the room is to eat and then she goes back to the room. My mom has recently started locking her out of the room while she works and that is when the peeing began.

Lastly, it’s not my cat therefore I cannot force her to go to vet. Period. I can set up appointments, let my mom use my credit card, but if my mom decides to not take the cat there is nothing I can do. I have even spoken to my dog’s vet about the cat and she agrees that my mom has to be the one to bring her in. I cannot just take the cat by force and take her to the vet against my mother’s wishes. It. Is. Not. My. Cat. So, saying me and every adult in the house is irresponsible is not true. My mom is responsible. And please, never bring my abilities as a mother or my children into it again. That has literally nothing to do with this situation other than to illustrate why I cannot be around feline urine. I don’t care how passionate you are, you can still have a discussion with respect.