Not necessarily. Could just be compatibility. Maybe anon doesn't hit the right itch, doesn't do the right things, doesn't move the right way,doesn't stimulate her clit. Hell, could even be too large. Being too big can hurt you. Getting a 12 incher pounded into you may sound good, but it hurts like hell. Most women don't like that. It hurts. A lot. I imagine it's how it feels to get punched in the balls. Now imagine doing that repeatedly. I do like that, but only if I have a week to rest afterwards. I'm one of those that can actually cum from cervix stimulation. Gynecology exams csn get awkward. But majority of women can't. And even when I do, I can't walk properly for a day or two and it feels like I have a dick in me for the rest fo the week. I prefer small ones, around 6 to 8 cm. Hit my g spot perfectly. Especially if crooked upwards. G spots are 5 to 8 cm deep, depending on the woman. So small guys, rejoice.