Anyone OAD because they just can’t be a pregnant mother ?

Yes, that’s the main reasoning. I had a horrible gyno, she thought my baby’s head was too small, and possibly had heart problems. I had pregnancy diabetes which i actually probably didnt have. She sent me to specialists all over the state who would always have the same competency as her... I was constantly stressed out. I was induced twice, the first time that string thing made mine and my daughter’s heart rates shoot up, they put me on a ventilator then sent me home. Then during the second time when i was post birth, there was blood everywhere and i asked my gyno if i was going to live and she yelled at me, “I DONT KNOW” then i puked 6 times and passed out. Then i had PPD the first year. Following my pregnancy, i have a lot of issues still such as bad acne which i never had before as well as constantly leaking ears. My pregnancy destroyed my body and my mental health and it’s been 4 years and i’m still traumatized. I would never do it again and i sure am sick of the, “every pregnancy is different” argument.

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