Do not listen to these people that are suggesting that you disrespect your family, telling them to fuck off or whatever. These people don't have to feed and house you. They are redditors with stupid ideologies, and most of them post here because they're ugly as shit and unmarried.

Also, when a black person has lots of children it is irresponsible because most of them(that have loads of kids already) support themselves with welfare. Read their comments rationally, they think people are racist because they're suggesting that they procreate...

You're making this out to be a very big problem, when it's just family talk. Almost everybody in my social circle went to med school, and some have families now. You have to understand that things were different in your parent's time. The family structure, of a housewife and a breadwinning man was the normal expectation of society, and still is to some degree. Obviously things have changed, and you are getting angry at them for projecting their experience of growing up onto you.

You have to realize that once you become independent, your parents start to miss the joy of having a toddler running around. Their next mission is to have gran-kids. Everybody goes through this, it's not exclusive to you. My parents now nag my brother. You need to be perceptive about this, and not just coin it off as racism and sexism. That is a very cheap way of thing about things these days.

Finally, you have blonde hair blue eyes... So what, right? No, your parents cherished this, and your beauty. They know that you will have beautiful gran kids and they crave the joys of seeing a mini you once again. Do not hold this against them, that is totally unfair whatever your aspirations may be in life. Do not think less of your parents for wanting something out of you. It's not irresponsible for them to want you to have a kid, because they know that if things do go well for you; they will support you.

I say this because you have come to a VERY biased place on this matter.