I see what you’re saying (and I really, really am sorry for your family’s loss) but... Now I know this is not a great example, but that would be kind of like if a contestant’s mom died, they shouldn’t do the bachelorette’s family visit. Another example: Not doing any dates that require physical activity because Cam almost lost his leg.

Again, I know those aren’t great examples. But my point is that everyone (or almost everyone) has had something traumatic happen to them at some point in their lives. It would be impossible to sensor everything for everyone. I know it sucks, but that’s the reality of it.

The only exception I can see is if there was a veteran and they did some kind of war simulation group date... which why they would ever do that kind of a date, I don’t know haha