I love him

after two months? really?

Yeah it's way too fast, but I myself had a dumbass boyfriend at 21 who told me he loved me a week in and wanted me to move in with him at 2 months, so I'm reluctant to say he's crazy/malicious rather than simply inexperienced. That said, the most important thing I learned in that time is that it doesn't matter if what I want is "irrational" or "stupid" or contradicts what somebody else wants - what I want is important and I'm allowed to honor it no matter what. I think you know what to do; you've said it multiple times.

tries to clip my wings

I mean, if this is how you see the situation, no matter how lovely he is and even if you had been dating for 20 years, don't move in with him. You clearly want something else and going along with him is just going to make you resentful and upset.