We message back and forth

at the same time she is messaging back and forth with many other guys because couchsurfing allows it on the site http://www.couchsurfing.com/about/safety/ "have a backup host in place before you go" so i tried to send a facebook friend request to look at recently added friends in my city and the pictures in my city when they left and stayed with another host,and yes,they all did and sent me "sorry i stay with a friend" he was better looking than me and i was the reliable and boring back up host so i decided long time ago to stop hosting on couchsurfing,until they remove it from the site,and now i host facebook friends from friends who already stayed in my house and on Trustroots because Trustroots has no open requests or last minutes but they work on a new reference system