I guess I'll go ahead and explain my situation - I was afraid of telling it on a military sub knowing where the US military stands on this.

I'm not overseas anymore (remember that I moved with my parents back the the US). My father approves of me going to this college - in fact, he's the one who told me about it. Really because it's on the base they're living on and they want me to live with them so they still have control over me.

The problem is that my father is unfair. I'm not allowed to date (by my father's rules), I'm not supposed to be online, I must go to his church, and I'm transgender (I went to ex-gay therapy overseas) and they've thrown away some of my personal belongings over this. I've told him that what he's done is completely unfair but he doesn't see anything wrong with it. In fact, he says it's what any good parent would do.

It really pisses me off.

I thought Tricare was free. They're telling me to go to college soon so I can keep Tricare but I told them that Tricare doesn't cover therapy/hormones (what's most important to me) in my case. Then they get pissed and throw a fit, threatening to disown me/kick me out/drop all support/call me a "fucking embarrassment".

I considered joining (I even took the ASVAB) just to get away from my family, but I can't put up with this for another two years. I've talked to six people about this in the past two years alone and nobody has been able to help me.