Thank you for saying this. When everyone was saying stuff like that I couldn’t help but think it was misogynistic in a way. Actual pedophile Josh Duggar arrested, but sure let’s blame his wife for staying with him, as though she’s not also in an abusive situation? It is glaringly obvious that Josh has no regard for her opinions, health, wellbeing, safety or security, because he has no regard for anyone’s. It was like when people were also commenting on Josh’s weight and saying it was gross he’s heavier- that’s what stood out to you about this situation, of all things???

Anna has absolutely no resources and was sincerely raised to believe she should stay with her husband for her entire life or she would suffer eternal damnation. She is also a victim of abuse- both at the hands of her parents and Josh. A ton of people were saying to that she was messed up for letting him ‘get her pregnant’. Yes because valuing consent is clearly a hallmark of Pest’s personality /s. It takes all of the responsibility off him and pushes it on her. We don’t know what she has been subjected to.