it strikes me that this is a male-on-female issue

How does it strike you? If there was some rational argument why didn't you put it in writing for us? I assume it strikes you emotionally.

It would obviously be very difficult to demonstrate men are incapable of understanding the abortion issue, men can't represent women or being a man means you are secretly in league with all the other men against women. It is an absurd position and simply not true.

Since your views are grounded in this this sheds light on the rest of your beliefs. You have to wonder why you are so desperate to have other people pay for an abortion you could have avoided by simply not having sex. There are people who can't afford to party every night or get a sugar daddy to pay for college, they have to work weekends, overtime and under the table just to get by and you seem to think they owe you something. Many Americans are homeless and go hungry but instead you protest for woman earning 6 figures to get a promotion to the board and for more scholarships and special treatment. At a certain point feminism stops being a good cause and starts becoming a weird cult based on faux-morality. We reached that point in the 90s probably.