a confession

I was in a similar situation. I'd have preferred it if he'd not have told me how he felt. We grew closer in some ways, but ultimately he changed his mind.

Sometimes we think our feelings are real when in reality they're simply short-lived obsessions. I say you wait it out. Take time to understand what you're feeling. If you're unsure or believe they may not genuine, don't tell her and forget it all. If you believe they're genuine, tell her. Simple.

You'd be better off distancing yourself from someone you have feelings for if they're not reciprocated anyway. It's healthier, and it'll allow you to move on.

So, if your feelings are genuine, have the courage to tell her. It'd be a shame if 2 people who could have shared something beautiful were to go their separate ways without realizing that something more may lead to happiness. I was in a similar situation. I'd have preferred it if he'd not have told me how he felt. We grew closer in some ways, but ultimately he changed his mind.

Sometimes we think our feelings are real when in reality they're simply short-lived obsessions. I say you wait it out. Take time to understand what you're feeling. If you're unsure or believe they may not genuine, don't tell her and forget it all. If you believe they're genuine, tell her. Simple.

You'd be better off distancing yourself from someone you have feelings for if they're not reciprocated anyway. It's healthier, and it'll allow you to move on.

So, if your feelings are genuine, have the courage to tell her. It'd be a shame if 2 people who may have otherwise shared something beautiful were to go their separate ways. You don't want regrets.

/r/UnsentLetters Thread