1) Yes. I have fleas that make me think an ex or a friend or two might actually take the time to find me here and read my stuff, so I have like three iterations of the same username. I used to blog about personal stuff, but I took all of that down. So, I get paranoid. Sometimes I think half the posts up about narcissism are about me. I avoid RBN, because even though I was RBN, I feel like I would do no good there and sometimes I feel like I might be a Narcissist, which is discouraging and frustrating and just unacceptable to me. 2) I can totally imagine the few toxic people and Ns I have known coming into forums and trying to learn how not to get caught as Ns. In my own experience, the evidence gatherers are all Ns. I know this isn't true in real life, but when dealing with damaged and toxic people, your words will be twisted, they will gang up on you, and you will end up being the bad guy. (This is how Scapegoating got the nickname Scapegoating) 3) I think the more knowledge hungry a N is, the more dangerous they are. I had to stop and handle my own business last year when I realized someone close to me wasn't actually into having a friendship/relationship with me and they were simply validating their own problems and I was the easiest, closest target. I pined about it for a little while and then realized I had dodged a major bullet.

I agree that the subreddit over there has exploded and that has sort of leaned me away from reading there.

And just to address all of your post and your comments all in one swipe, I think anyone who is taking the time to build a restraining order case with screenshots is a lunatic, not just a N. (If you have immediate danger, physical abuse, etc, I think you deserve an immediate order of protection. Orders of protection have become blanket solutions to things like talking, counseling, child custody cases, evictions, etc and are abused every day in our country by people who are actually Ns. I have been on the receiving end of this once and it is awful. Sorry to hijack)