Divorced men of reddit: what moment with your former wife made me think "Yup, I'm asking this girl to divorce me."?

Not to get too off topic here, but I've had something similar happen to me. She claimed I was stalking her (I lived 100 miles away) and harassing her... the harassment claims were based on phone calls (not many, 5-6 over the course of 3 weeks) that she asked for. She filed a police report, and then told friends of mine she was sorry for cheating on me and wanted to talk about it but was afraid I'd ignore her so she convinced them to get me to call her. It was a trap and I took the bait. I even had proof of these conversations with the friends (they saved the texts) and the wonderful prosecutor filed a motion to suppress and the (female) judge granted it. I subsequently was forced to take a plea deal because my defense was thrown out... that is completely legal for women to do to men, so I honestly feel enraged every time I see anything about male privilege and feminists literally calling it systematic oppression when Planned Parenthoods budget is under attack. I cannot fathom the type of stupid and spoiled it takes to think not being provided for at the cost of someone else is oppression, but legalized perjury to put a man behind bars is just fine

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