I don't really have many guy friends and I've been told by reddit to treat guys and girls the same to make more guy friends. The problem is - I've noticed that what works to make friends with girls doesn't work with guys. Is it just me or are my reasons legitimate?

Not to be a prick, but most women don't bring much to the table in terms of friendship for men. Understand that we and you are collective here. We don't give a shit what your dumb friends are doing, we don't care what "outfits" you're buying this season, we don't care about you getting your nails done, you don't care about sports nor do you usually know any more about sports or how they work than a 4 year old. You don't like cars, shooting, the outdoors. You're by and large not funny at all. We have to treat you differently despite claims that you're "one of the bros" because truth is that if we try and wrestle with you we'll hurt you, and if we say something mean in jest, instead of laughing and sniping back you'll start crying.

Most women don't make good, close friends for men. If the attraction interest wasn't there, most men I have talked to agree that we wouldn't spend any time with women. Y'all simply aren't that interesting. Just look at all your identical tinder bios. Love laughing. Love wine. And that's all the depth you bring.

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