Your ISFJ supervisor would like to have a word with you. It's not as clean as you think ;)

Aha, that's all right - I have an ESTJ in my family to give me constructive feedback :p

You can't really make that assertion unless you've met her in person.

Then what's the point of people putting up "type me" posts or doing video skype type me chats? We all don't know one another in real life here on the internet. All we can go by is what we read and her Youtube channel.

Peppermint-kiss claims that people are trolling her depending on which type (ESFJ or ENFJ) they hate more. That is not the most accurate conclusion - people just think another type might be more suitable. /u/Komatik is right: Peppermint is a very loud voice in the MBTI community, so it is ESPECIALLY important that she is typed correctly and that she herself thoroughly understands the material. They are also growing increasingly frustrated by her behavior, which can come across as condescending (e.g. writing up huge paragraphs to lecture people on "polite" behavior or telling others that their hearts could stand to be more open toward poly relationships yet at the same time tell other people that their opinions in preferring monogamy hurts her). Group-think is not the issue here - we're not trying to bully someone into accepting a type they're not. It's merely a suggestion to reevaluate though I can agree that a few individuals in the past could've been more tactful.

I looked over her new post and honestly that's not Se. Se is not about acting crazy and reckless and destructive. There are plenty of SFJs that can act like that anyway. Se is also force, will power, etc.

So Peppermint concludes:

Those people are boring and self-centered. I'm not impressed anymore by people who spend hours getting attractive to go throw their money away getting wasted. I'd much rather paper bag it and walk down the train tracks at night with real people. I think posting Facebook pictures about your "wild" "exciting" "exploits", dropping money on expensive accessories to impress your lame-ass, equally insecure friends, judging your self-worth by the jobs on the business cards of the men you've slept with...that's not a real life. Those people aren't real. Their judgmental, petty, BORING world stays the same night after night, and I've moved on past that to something way better.

Yeah, she's totally not being judgmental here either! Hey, how about some people like different things? Are all people that go clubbing automatically [insert negative trait here]? That sort of generalization is unnecessary. I don't care to argue what type she is. She can go on believing whatever she wants then.