as a grayce, I can confirm this although some aces are sex repulsed which I tend to fluctuate between.

When it comes to aces that aren't sex repulsed or are fluid in that regard. You don't really view people by themselves in a sexual way, but view the things they might do to you or you might do to them in more of a sexual way.

For example: instead of being attracted to a hot person on the basis of them being hot, you're attracted to someone tying you up in bondage. It's not really about the person as much as it is the act

Some aces probably have different experiences than me, this is more or less my own experience when it comes to the matter.