I was 15. I was in a youth organisation, and I met this girl. She was a bit chavvy but not that bad.
Anyway we started talking outside of this youth group and eventually we decided to meet up one night before we went to said group.
We met in a public park, plenty of people around, there was a bit of messing around (play fighting, and the like) and there was a moment, and we kissed.
We had been talking for a few weeks, and I thought this was great, see where things go. Anyway, I get a text from her that night saying something along the lines of "don't ever text me again".
I was upset and confused, but I thought I'll text to her in a few days and see how she feels. I do so, and she rings me, however it's not her on the phone, it's another guy, he tells me to leave her alone or he will put me in hospital. She then texts me afterwards reiterating to me to stay away, accusing me of what I did to her in the park was rape (it was nothing more than a kiss.)
Naturally I was upset and I felt horrible to be accused of such a thing, but a few months later, a new girl joined the youth group. She was really nice, pretty, etc. (by now, this other girl had left, and this guy was now her boyfriend, I think she said what she said to me to get me out of the picture, so she could be with him, who I believe she was seeing at the same time as I was texting her).
I start talking to this new girl. Things go well, we meet up once and makeout and talk and stuff. We decide to meet up again, however it's outside our local library and she didn't have time to hang out fully but she said she could meet me on her way home from school at said library.
So we're sat outside chatting away quite nicely, anyway, this guy comes up to us, telling this girl to be careful of me, saying I would make her do things I didn't want to. Of course I was angry at this guy for exaggerating the bullshit this other girl had obviously fed him, I told him to leave us alone, it was none of his business to butt in on our relationship.
Anyway, she goes home after that, understandably confused and upset, but I explained the situation to her, but it turns out she knew this previous girl and did not get on well with her at all, so she is more angry that I was even interested in this last girl in the first place, let alone what she accused me of.
So we have a bit of an argument but I explained to her that I'm only interested in her, and that the other girl is basically dead to me. She realises this and things go OK. But, soon, we start arguing every month or so. Over stupid things, we end up breaking up and getting back together after a few weeks of solitude.
One thing that did worry me was that she was always talking about kids, she couldn't wait to have them and wanted to be a mum so badly.
I should mention, this girl I'm now seeing was currently a virgin, I wasn't, but I said we would go at her pace. Every time she came round, which wasn't very often at all considering we lived in the same town, she never seemed up for it. Only some foreplay (kissing, fingering etc.) and seemed really against having sex with me.
I didn't think much of it, wasn't going to pressure her in to it, and I was in love with her, I was happy to wait. Anyway, come around November, we have another argument, and break up. I don't talk to her until she texts me at Christmas and wishes me a Merry Christmas, and just like the times before when we broke up, we start talking again.
I learnt that in the month we had been apart, she had seen another guy, and fucked him, losing her virginity and got pregnant, and took the plan B pill.
I felt sorry for her and comforted her, but, I was angry that she did something like that with another guy so quickly when we did nothing after being together for months.
She always said if we did have sex she didn't want to use a condom. She told me she was on the pill (before we broke up and she saw this guy) now I know the pill doesn't work 100% of the time but it's quite effective, it's still a slim chance of it to fail, which makes me think she lied to me about being on the pill in the first place, and that she actually wanted to get pregnant.
I did not feel comfortable with this at all, I didn't want kids. I was now 18 and she was 16. But, stupidly, I still got back with her after knowing this.
Things continued like normal, I asked if we would have sex and she just responded with "soon". Arguments started occurring again about stupid shit. We broke up a few times and got back together a few times, then, come June when she was turning 17, I got her a cake, a box of chocolates, flowers, and some clothes and a nice card with a long love letter in it.
She said thank you, but a few weeks after we had an argument, things were quiet, but my birthday was in July. She said she would get me something, she never did, things were bad. I messaged her the day after my bday and she told me she needed space, and would text back in a week to see how she felt. She never text back and I haven't spoken to her since.