I don't necessarily think there is a problem with labelling in itself, although I'm skeptical of people that want to expel out the usage and practicality of labelling to begin with. When it comes to calling myself a Femcel, it's serves it's purpose for attracting likeminded women in similar situations that can relate, not so much that it's important that I have this identity. Dispelling out labels that are useful ignores the reasons for why they exist that call for attention. My sexuality isn't a label I actively use nor recognize a large part of my identity, so it doesn't conflict with being functional, the same goes for Femcel. It's only problematic when I reduce myself to 'femceldom' which very rarely happens. It never feels limiting unless I start voiding responsiblity and ignoring the larger picture.

For myself, I don't view 'femceldom' as static position and like anything else, but instead a temporal state unique to my circumstances. Whether or not I overcome it is another issue all together.

The difference between normie women and femcel's for me isn't so much that normie women can't relate, but its a matter of the degree and frequency that distinguishes the two. Just like many men can relate to Incel issues, such as rejection.