We usually spend time with my wife's friends. They are generally nice, but there is always too much tension. If I want to spend time with one of them (even just a lot of talking at a party) there is the "is he talking to me because he wants to fuck me?" question.

With this couple, at the first meeting I told her "yeah, I want to fuck you ..which means I don't have to lie. We all know I want to fuck you and enjoy your body ..so no lies here!". That was really cool.

I don't know if it's common, but the barriers between us are absolutely zero. Okay, maybe between me and the other guy...I could easily go bisexual, and I'd like to. The idea of 4 people in the room and things going all directions is really appealing to me. And I like the idea of playing with dicks..but I don't think he is down. But other than that, it's free grabs all around, and I like that.