Sorry but, like what? Herpes isnt AIDS. It isn't contagious unless you have sores and a third of people already have it. Bringing it up is just going to get people weird/freaked out over literally nothing.

I got herpes 10 years ago. Had two outbreaks that year and it never came back. As far as I'm concerned, and as far as any competent doctor is concerned, I'm not a risk to anyone at this point - barring some freak occurrence of an outbreak - which is unlikely to happen at this stage. And even then, I wouldn't be out having sex with people during an outbreak anyway?

Honestly, just forget about it. I've had sex with hundred+ girls, and guess how many told me they had herpes? ZERO. Despite statistically, at least a few dozen had it.

I'm assuming you only recently got herpes so are still in the 'freak out' stage. Never known any friends or anyone to bother thinking about it past the initial infection(s).