A bit about me - 6'3, good shape, make 6 figs, 50+ under my belt. 29. Downside - up until 3 days ago, I lived at home. Natural confidence killer and made logistics a bitch. Now I'm in a prime location in downtown in my own place. Part of it was student loans (100k+), but I'll be blunt and say part of it was complacency.
A hot, alpha-possessed woman on a unicorn-level pedestal. Your chances are already slim to none.
The blindfolds are lifted, but you're right. She's alpha-possessed.
he's super possessive
Gets jealous of me and lashes out on me via FB, even when I didn't speak to her for months (she liked a pic of mine)
An Alpha Widow still living with her main Alpha. Chances are even slimmer.
True.
Not surprising, given the scenario you've just described.
True
If she's texting you daily, you're giving her something to feed off of.
Good point, although I'm calling her out on her drama/bullshit. Maybe she loves that.
Got through how? You haven't had sex with her. You're basically her orbiter.
Good point. Maybe I'm making excuses, but she's a moderate muslim and grew up overseas - really tough on slut shaming. Chad was her first (got married at 18, she's 24).
No she didn't. That's what she told you to keep you around.
She didn't mention it - I guess I'm saying it myself. She started reaching out and wanting to hang out, and got into fights with the guy for her to stop talking to me. He hit her, she called the police and filed for divorce. The divorce part is true - she's a family friend's cousin - I know her whole fam
That's what she told you. Read into her intentions. She misses you as her beta and orbiter. She'll say anything in order to get her validation source back.
Good point. She flipped the script from wanting to be fuck buddies to 'lets just let things grow naturally'. Thing is - given her situation - the only realistic thing she can provide is sex, and that's out the window while she lives with Chad. Thank you.
You've lost. He's a better Alpha than you. And what's more, if you ever step foot into an interaction in favor of some "revenge fantasy" you have played out in your mind, you're in for a sour dose of reality.
Thanks. There is a revenge fantasy. He's possessive/violent (gets into fights with guys who even look at her in bars) - makes me want to get into MMA. I'm stubborn and haven't been able to shake this.
Leave this. All of this. Don't speak with either of these two. The time you've spent on her is lost, so it's better to move on and accept it rather than try and use your revenge fantasy as some sort of motivator for bettering yourself.
Thanks. Oh, did I mention they have a kid together? Jesus, typing this all out is a harsh dose of reality.