To make a long story short, we broke up end of november. My bf was and still is going through a tough time in his life, and at the time he was unsure of how he could continue to support a relationship. I understood and wished him well. I took this as an opportunity to work on myself. I started to visualize and listen to subliminals unrelated to this story and had many coincidences happen. Aside from this i also indugled in activities that made me happy and focused on the present activity that i was doing or my present life. I thought to myself that i will have to fight to be happy so i realized i need to just focus on the now because there are many things right now that can conjure happiness. Im just suprised how quickly i applied this. Within two days i was okay with it. I didnt care. He did pop up in my mind from time to time but i never felt any sadness out of it. Soon whenever he came to mind i had a growing feeling he would come back. So nearing to the end of december he came back two weeks ago. He said i love you yesterday and that was that. I didnt feel like i tried at all, i didnt even think it was something i did until yesterday my father had brought home ice cream and the flavor name was the same as my bfs last name. And his last name isnt common like smith. It's spelt weird too. But there it was, so i showed him a pic of it and the next day he found that exact same brand and flavor ice cream in his fridge too, but his family doesnt even get stuff other than vanilla. He asked if it mightve been a seasonal flavor but it wasnt. So ? By chance it was there lol. I dont think its a stretch to assume. Idk whole experience is weird to think about. The ice cream incident kind of solitified something in me. I could go more into detail but i feel that would be oversharing information at that point. But the key components are all there. Hope this sparks inspiration, check out dr joe dispenzas testimonials too. People recount healing from terminal illnesses with just meditation and visualization. so for those of you lacking faith those are some videos i recommend. He's got the same idea but explains it in a more scientific way.