22 year old guy who just got out of a distance relationship. I live in California and she's from Arizona. We met distant...and started dating after two months of constant texting. It was all good until we broke up after 10 months. Then we got back together after four months. And we thought we were going to be forever. Until we just recently broke up again after being together for 9 months.
To simply put; it was a really bad relationship. She forced me to cut a lot of my friends out of my life. Going onto my Facebook to delete or block them simply because they were girls. She would force me to FaceTime her every night to make sure I was home. She would force me to send Pictures of where I was and who I was with to make sure I wasn't with girls. And I did all that. Soon enough, I exploded. And I started cussing her out and ignoring her calls. I would sneak out to be with my bros. Then she dumped me again.
I feel like everything was my fault...and that it was my fault that we broke up. I got emotional and within two weeks of breaking up, I texted her...telling her I'd do anything to get her back. She blamed me for the break up and told me it was not the right time. It we were meant to be forever, so if we could survive this challenge from life, maybe we can be together again. So I said I'd wait. I even turned down girls at Vegas for New Years so I could keep my promise of waiting. Then she just stopped texting me out of nowhere before New Year's Eve. Then I saw a picture today...from her friends Facebook. A picture of my ex in an arm of some guy for New Year's Eve rave.
This guy is someone she knew. And I think she's been seeing him before we broke up. Cuz suddenly she gave up coming to California for grad school to attend school near where he lives. And she started visiting the city where he lived more often, but at the time I didn't think much of it.
Why would she say that I'm her forever and that maybe life will bring us back together if she already had this guy...what am I to do...I don't know if I can ever move on from her. I need some real advice...