I just feel like I'm an object to be looked at and used. When it comes to guys anyway.
I'm not a prude or anything but today's culture just seems to be about fucking and sex appeal. Big boobs. Big butt.
The way a lot of the guys my age talk about girls is just... Ugh.
Not that I get approached but if I did I'd never know if it was genuine or if they're just talking to me because they think I'm a '6/10' or whatever and just easy.
So even tough you are not getting approached you still feel like and object to be looked and used?
The biggest mistake of you post is to assume that because a guy may want to sleep with you that means that he only wants you for that. The reality is that most guys would want to sleep with most girls but definitely that doesn't mean that guys only are interested in sex. What happens in most cases is that they want to be your friends/coworkers/whatever but at the same time want to have sex with you. This things are not mutually exclusive.
Oh and culture has been always about sex.
I feel like I have to leave my house with makeup in order to feel like I'm worth something.
And it sucks. All of it just sucks.
Again this seems to contradict what you were saying before. First you say that you feel like and object to be looked and now you say that if you don't were makeup you feel like you are not worth anything.
Being attractive has a lot of perks, i have not meet a single person in all my life that was trying to be more ugly. If you feel this way it's because wearing makeup makes you more attractive and being attractive is a BIG advantage, even if you are a men.
I'm so scared to walk past groups of guys because I'm afraid they're gonna laugh at me or something because it's happened so many times. And a lot of my friends feel the same way.
It's just constant scrutiny, even if you're trying to mind your own business.
"What do you think of that girl?" "What about her" "What is she out of 10"
Girls are as selfish as men, even for looks. The only difference is that physical appearance has more weight in the way men feel attracted while women give more importance to other things, but that doesn't make them less selfish.
Also, you don't know what anyone is thinking about you. If a group of guys start laughing when you pass by, probably doesn't have anything to do with you.
I just feel like shouting "fuck off!" sometimes.
Like never mind what you think about me, what do I think about YOU? Why do you just assume that I'll like you. As if I should feel privileged that you're talking to someone so beneath you.
It's not all guys that do this. It's pretty common in my culture unfortunately sigh, majority of guys just want to fuck and more than half cheat on their girlfriends.
A lot of them feel really highly of themselves too and are extremely picky about who they talk to.
So ugly= ignored.
It's bullshit.
It's just tiring to deal with. I always feel like I'm being judged.
Everyone is judged all the time by all the people.
I really cannot identify my experienced with this part. Most guys assume that they will like you or they ACT like that? being/acting confident plays a really important part in attraction, there are not many guys who are pessimist and can attract women. I don't think most of them assume that they will like you, they act like that because if they don't see them self like good candidates, how can they expect that you do?
Women cheat also and even more than men depending on the definition of cheating and the circumstances.
Strangely enough, insults from girls don't bother me half as much. But that's because the compliments outweigh the insults. I've never been complimented by a guy my age before though. Which is why I constantly look for their approval.
That's perfectly normal, men also look for approval all the time. There is even an industry exclusively dedicated to that.
I'm just rambling but yeah, I hate being a girl sometimes.
There is not better or worst, everything depends on your point of view and the things that you care. Being a women or a man it's not better or worst objectively.
Have a nice day!