He is too perfect? That I feel grossly immature and fall short in comparison to him. I do not have low self esteem. This is an odd issue that I would like insight to. Me [28F] and my BF [31M].

Maybe once a week or once every two weeks? It isnt that he points out my 'flaws.' moreso my mistakes that I make. And the thing is is that I know they're mistakes too.

Like the last thing he pointed out was that i told him x had made me upset and then recently I did the same thing to him that made me upset. So I was being a hypocrite.

Another is that I can be very emotional which he has never said is a problem but he tries to explain how my emotional thoughts arent rational. That I am thinking negatively and for the worst. This is also true.

So like i know it even before he points them out. But also, I think I get tired of trying all the time?

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