Help, my ill mother is driving my dad, siblings and I insane, blaming him for her illness and wishing he gets infected.

You know, a few months back my mum was acting up again. She would slam the door as hard as she could every time one of us would pass by. I happened to be going up to my room and she slammed her door thinking that i was going into her room to talk or something. I couldn't handle the anxiety because honestly its a horrible sound, it happened way to often and it would make me jump every single time. So i begged her to stop doing that because she kept frightening me. And then she started screaming and cursing me and wishing bad things upon me and my dad (because she blames him for everything).. and then i had a panic attack and couldn't breath because it was all too much. My brother managed to record the whole thing but we haven't played it back to her yet. I don't want to say this but she sounds positively evil in the recording.. Its a good idea but i'm afraid she'll still think she's in the right and blame my dad. I appreciate the comment.

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