The joke is not respecting your body enough to take care of it. If you get to the point where your skin is literally stretching out to make up for the massive intake of calories, and you complain that life sucks; I laugh. Soul searching is realizing that usually the shamed fat people are liars, they don't do everything they can to lose weight. They feed off of attention, sadness and pitty and want everyone to know their problems aren't their fault. That's the joke. People are inherently liars, fat gay black white doesn't matter. They will lie and do as little as possible to get the most results and cry to the world when it doesn't go their way. It's all a sick joke.