How do I become dateable?

He left me. I want children and he never does. We simply wasn’t compatible in our long term goals.

Autism I couldn’t honestly say as I only am acquainted with two friends that are very mild cases so don’t feel I have enough experience to answer honestly and examples in film tend to be the extreme cases. It definitely wouldn’t put me off on paper but it ultimately would depend how our interactions went in person.

Lack or a delay in motor skills wouldn’t stop me finding someone attractive or being with someone. I myself have an invisible condition so perhaps that makes me much more tolerable of physical barriers in particular.

I do appreciate having multiple obstacles/barriers as a man will make it much harder OLD as the numbers are already in favour towards women. I am not disputing it isn’t easy or that rejections don’t come for virgins.

But women do (generally) worry more about safe sex, STDS (increased risk cervical cancer). From that angle, a man with less experience to none is a perk. Women in their 30’s (at least that want children) generally care more about faithfulness and safety than how many sex positions he knows.

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