3. How can I [28F] get over my distaste and be supportive of my friends [29Fs] payc...

How can I [28F] get over my distaste and be supportive of my friends [29Fs] paycheck to paycheck still living at home lifestyle? Cause otherwise, I really think this friendship of 15 years is done for.

I don't expect anyone to oh and ah over my boring life. At the same time, when I mention I am jet lagged and it sucks I expect to hear either a "that's too bad." Or "I know! Every time I get back, I crash at 3pm." That's the disconnect. They have nothing to say when I discuss my life with them. No response. I have friends of various social classes, and it's not an issue. The issue I feel is them simply not caring. Or, with one person I stopped talking to, getting actively mad at me. I started hiding everything I did cause it would set her off (e.g. my husband doing the dishes...). I enjoy talking about my travels, or cooking, but more than that I wanted a listener.

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