How can I look more feminine? Thanks to a very caring redditor, I had to reupload. My prescription was visible. Stupid me.

Hi

To me you are feminine already. You are super attractive, have great hair and skin and eyes.

To emphasize though, just get some lashes and a good lip color and call it a day.

I’m older and a recovering karen, and I’m learning as I go, so please forgive my language if I say anything wrong -

You’d look so good with some layers and multidimensional color in your hair. I see glossy browns and caramel low lights. A good salon is a must. No Super Cuts or Fast Clips please.

Please focus on your skin instead of makeup. The kind of makeup people are talking about above is, after doing it myself for 35+ years, a waste of effort and money. It’s heavy, requires maintenance throughout the day, you absolutely have to remove it at night, and it complicates skin care.

Yes it’s absolutely necessary to wear makeup and wear it well to feel more ____, more feminine, pretty, sexy, when you want to be extra, when you’re going to dinner or a show or whatever, but no amount of concealer or contour will look good over enlarged pores and rough patches. You already have great skin, so don’t mess with that, keep it up. Drink lots of water, moisturize, stay out of the sun. Trust an older lady on this please

Fwiw Ulta gives in person makeup lessons that include lashes, and it’s actually affordable. They also put makeup on for you, at two levels - every day and red carpet, that also include lashes.

Like everyone else I want to know how you do and how it goes. Xoxox

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