Aw cheers, that's a good comment. I basically just feel shame that my porn tastes (which this is about) means everything I want in real life, and I'm ruminating on it, and thinking I now need to label myself where for all of my life I've never bothered. Suck a dick, I'd honestly prefer a pussy in my mouth, but you never know, a dude sucked my dick one day and was good at it, hardly the end of the world, but that doesn't make me totally straight, it makes me SOMETHING

So yeah I am now going about having obsessive thoughts testing myself to see if fancy men and that's my OCD (I have this so it's likely at play here ) and I want to just accept me for me, and I feel I've told my wife enough, I know I'm not bisexual and I think I'd know if that happened, so I syppose it's a case of can I enjoy the porn I watch (legal obviously) without second guessing? I don't know I just feel coming to a community like this will give me some fantastic life experiences and I think I'd benefit from hearing it, that in fact millions of others are similar to me.