How to deal with Bi-Cycle in a hetero mono relationship?

As a straight partner I wish I had the insight and courage of both the OP and their boyfriend.

I have gently tried to have a conversation with my partner about incorporating bisexuality into a relationship. However, it's early days and my partner has said they don't know what any of this means yet, which I both respect and understand.

Yet I feel like I have to find a place for my relationship around the options you described. On one end, my importance to them as a lover will dwindle as they are set free to explore, while at the other I am keeping them my prisoner.

Is it just a hard truth that the relationship I thought I had (till death do us part) is possibly no more and I need to accept that it must become something else?

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