How to find love as a 33M outside societal norms?

I’m not offended at all.

As I said in my post, I am aware that our country is a traditional & regressive culture where women are perceived as weak - needing to be taken care of, as emotionally unstable - needing a man to bring them stability, as incubators - needing to produce offspring in order to have worth.

I am also aware that any relationship dynamic outside monogamy, regardless of how honest, is perceived as unfaithful. Even if my partner was fully aware & completely consenting, it would be perceived as “somehow cheating”.

Lastly, it’s very telling that you see it as “wasting time”. As if women have an expiration date…

It’s alright, though. I’m not here to change anyone’s mind. You are entitled to your opinions no matter how primitive they may be.

/r/mumbai Thread Parent