i agree with u/Malgaras on goals, also that law of attraction is mostly crappy woo. prosperity churches, scientology, caste systems, and present fads in magic with a "k" say there is something wrong with you or your energy if your life isn't appraised form the outside as success, or your troubles are your fault. at the same time, attitude clearly affects how we perceive persons and events and their response to us. i guess there is something to law of attraction, but it doesn't work in the ways it is sold. we only have control over ourselves. if we live in a crazy world, no matter how right we are with ourselves, we can't avoid suffering and problems. but we always have choice, even if very limited.