I feel like the problem more lies in the fact he lied about this girl in general and then later found out he was lying that she had slept over before, they’d done anal before. None of which I used to have issues with past partners but with him I respond with a lot of insecurity and I believe it’s because he’s lied about so many things from his past so instead of laughing it off I view it as a threat.

It really is a clusterfuck. I’m so conflicted as to who really is at fault here. He lied in the beginning and I responded to his eventual honesty with insecurity and judgement.

I love this man with all my heart but I’m feeling completely lost and helpless with this shit. Every other department is great but the trust is rickety.