Hi I would just like to let u know that I exist! I’m AMAB, went thru a therapist and two doctors to get on HRT to help with dysphoria, I use a name that was not on my birth certificate and am looking forward to getting it legally changed, I came out to my parents and friends and dealt with the shit that came with that, I don’t pass as either gender and I work with kids so that comes up often, I’ve been harassed on the street and followed home and I promise you I have lots of experiences in common with you.

I’m also absolutely nonbinary. I’m certain I’m not a man, and I’m also certain I’m not a woman. My pronouns are they/them and those are the only ones I’ve ever felt comfortable with. I’m not nonconforming or “non stereotypical \birth_gender”, I am just neither a man nor a woman.

I don’t care anymore what gender anyone is or how they present or anything. At al. They are living their life; I live mine. I just use whatever pronouns ppl ask for and try not to assume too much. It’s not super hard. Sometimes even I fuck up and I apologize and correct it.

You’ve been a real shitheel in this thread and tbh I don’t give a fuck about what gender you think me or any other enby person “actually” is. I just want you to know you’re wrong and nonbinary people like me exist.