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Honestly, your mother sounds like a sexual predator. I mean none of what she is doing is alright in the slightest. It almost seems like all this sex talk, masturbating really loudly, and leaving her dildos out for you to discover (I refuse to believe this is accidental) is her way of grooming you.

That added to the fact that she is subtly telling you, by barging in on you when you are changing and talking to you inappropriately, that you don't have a right to physical or emotional boundaries. And that it is normal and right that she traverses these very valid and important boundaries whenever she sees fit.

She needs help, but as the child, that is really not your responsibility. Do you have any aunts or uncles you can tell about this. I get that you are embarassed by her behavior but this goes much further than the usual teen angst about embarassing parents, your mom honestly sounds like a sexual predator and you should tell someone. None of what is happening is your fault. Any sane adult you confide in would be able to tell you that.

I would also move out of the house as soon as possible. Can you hire a locksmith to put a lock on both the bathroom door and your door in the interim? Also don't ever go to any club with her ever again.

I am sorry this is happening to you. It is fucked up. You don't deserve this. No child does. Good luck.

• You wrote embarassing which should have been embarrassing

• You wrote embarassed which should have been embarrassed

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