INFJ female here, wanting to talk to ENTPs

ENTP male here as well.

Not sure what this is so I'll just say some things.

I like to talk to people. I enjoy entertaining people and making them laugh; two things I am very good at. I can lose interest quite quickly though. Like my ENTP comrade here, I also do not connect with people easily as I seem to find most people boring, predictable and just uninteresting. I do my best though because my job depends on it.

I've started a handful of businesses, all of which have failed, not for being a poor idea, but lack of effort. I just became bored with them. I made some money on them though, some of them...lol.

I find myself creating trips all the time. I really enjoy snowboarding so I spent like 6 hours the other day creating what would be the most badass snowboarding trip I could come up with. It involved flying to Niseko, Japan for like a week then flying down to Queenstown, New Zealand for another week and just shredding like there is no tomorrow. It'd be epic. I legit considered booking it on the spot but I most likely wouldn't have had a job when I came back.

I make good money doing what I currently do. I hate it honestly and I feel like I'm operating at like 20% of my potential at this job, a job that many people below me would kill to have by the way. I feel like I'm going through the motions but I dominate at it for some reason. I legit can't explain it. I get compliments from clients and coworkers on a routine basis talking about how good I am at what I do. I obviously say thanks but inside I'm like this shit is stupid easy, wtf is wrong with all of you. I enjoy the ego stroking though, not gonna lie. Maybe thats why I'm still there. Not sure.

When it comes to women, I get bored super quickly. It doesn't matter how attractive they are. Its demoralizing sometimes when I think about it because they're great girls...but I just don't give a fuck. Straight up. Its not my fault that they can't keep my interest. Or maybe it is? I don't know. This is why I'm 30 and single though. So I guess I'll just keep spinning plates.

I also highly value knowledge and self-improvement. I have zero tolerance for incompetence and if I think you're guilty of it, I will calmly and logically pick you apart and you will walk away feeling like you're stupid. I don't do that intentionally, its just how it comes out. I feel bad about it when I reflect on it after the fact but then I move on because I don't have time for petty things like feelings.

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