It's the same as when a husband is caught red-handed with another woman/man, the wife beats that woman/man and not his husband.

People don't have the balls to speak up in real life or have a discussion of what happened but throw tantrums like a daily-soap queen/king.

My case was similar to this guy, but not the IIT craze because in my small-town there was no IIT/IAS craze but to follow some person(a girl got into Google while having a Mtech match from Delhi, let's put our children into Engineering, People were simpleton lol) who got in any career path. Therapy and speaking out is the best thing, if nothing is done the person turns out miserable, and cold, and removing the frustration on things which makes the frustration + mental energy more miserable.