Is there a better way to go about asking a question? Perhaps less details are less distracting. She's pretty calm for someone having ADHD, compared to my brother. I know everyone is different, I respect that. She has this coloring app on her phone, and she'll be on it while driving, but never when it's just us two. Could that be a small way for her to get rid of tension just from being shy/excited by being with me?

We never talked about this, but maybe there's these tiny signs? I want her to be more comfortable if she isn't, any tips with dealing with her better, on a more social level. Should I just continue keeping a hold of everything, and not have her decide what we do. She says she doesn't care what we do, as long as she's with me. Which I feel the same thing.... But I couldn't imagine it being too fun to be able to go out, but settle for just a movie night, at home or theatre. But it's too cold to go out and do something like we used to. We've been to zoos/parks ECT during summer.