In regards to your relationship post...

I know the pain of cheating and I'm so sorry you're going through it. My first boyfriend left me for my best friend. My first love and I dated for over 3 years before I found out he cheated on me 6 months in. I was devastated, and even though it happened early on we were never able to rebuild. My third boyfriend cheated on me repeatedly throughout the relationship. His emotional and physical abuse manipulated me into believing nobody else could love for over a year and a half. My fourth boyfriend left me for another woman. As did my fifth. At this point I thought there was something wrong with me. Through years of therapy I learned (and I am still learning) that there is nothing wrong with me. I'm attractive, intelligent, and fiercely loyal. There was something wrong with THEM. I hated men. Had sworn them off. Convinced myself they were all cheaters And love didn't exist. Then I met Dan, and all those silly beliefs went down the window. I Learned what love, respect, and loyalty from a partner truly meant. I am now happily spending my life with a man I am confident will never cheat on me.

Why am I telling you all this? Because you're hurting right now. But I PROMISE you will love again. You will find a girl who is faithful. Don't give up, but don't force it either. What you're going through is so painful and if you need to talk I am here. But don't let it harden your heart. Don't get butter. These girls are not worth you. Enjoy a time of crying DNS eating ice cream. Then focus on bettering yourself, and enjoying your alone Time. Eventually the proper love will come your way.