Yes, and that's what I'm talking about (however ineptly). As I understand it... Depending on how one plays that role, to some extent a submissive trains him/herself to subordinate their own needs/wishes to someone else. If the other party is a caring dom/me with the maturity and self-control to keep the sub's well-being in mind, then maybe that's okay.

But it seems very risky to me to be cultivating that "yes Sir/Ma'am, anything you say" mental pattern, and also working with entities who are, at best, not particularly concerned about your well-being. So if you do get into conjuration, I hope you'll think very carefully about how strong your psychological boundaries are first.