Men who tried talking about their feelings with women, how did that go for you?

I am very lucky that I have quite a few amazing women in my life that support me talking about my feelings and support that, as well as support me being vocal about being a rape victim.

But I will absolutely say at the same time, only women have ever reacted negatively towards me doing that. Only women have said I don't have it bad, or that I shouldn't make the conversation about me, or that I'm trying to take the spotlight away from women, or that I deserved whatever I have gone through.

Men are pretty neutral either way, neither positive or negative. They are usually a bit supportive or don't know what to say at all. But only women have made me hate myself and feel like I deserve to die for even bringing up being raped or that I have depression.

Now again, I have a lot of truly wonderful women in my life that ARE NOT LIKE THAT. Not at all. Amazing support from them that means a lot to me.

But if I imagine my life if I just so happened to have a lot less friends and may not have those amazing women that support me? It makes a bit of sense to me why guys fall deep into the crazy red pill bullshit of hating women.

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